Channeled Messages: On Having Boundaries as an Intuitive
Channeled Messages: On Having Boundaries as an Intuitive
Boundaries are very important in intuitive of work and in all areas of life. Intuitive work is very giving and service oriented and we, as healers and empaths, tend to put others first and ourselves last. You need to make sure you have something to give first otherwise you aren’t really giving. You have these gifts for a reason and there will be those that will love and appreciate it and those that won’t get it and either way, that is okay. Having boundaries helps you to know who you are and what is acceptable from yourself and from others!
-Beginning of channeled message-
“Understand that boundaries are important to have.
Understand that it is not your job to fix or change anyone.
Understand that it is not spirits job to fix or change anyone.
Understand that we give tools, exercises and information based on ones vibration and what we believe will help them most.
But it is up to that person to do the work.
Everyone is on their own path and journey in life and each person will experience what they need to.
Who’s to say that what they are experiencing is right or wrong?
You are not in their shoes and they are not in yours.
What others think or say about you is none of your business.
Have boundaries with the input from others.
Know what is okay and what is not for you.
Make a list of all the areas in your life and write down what you will tolerate and what you will not.
How much time are you willing to give to others?
How much energy?
You are worthy and deserving of all things in life and you are worthy of taking care of yourself and part of taking care of yourself is boundaries.
You cannot control what others do.
You can only control what you do, think, feel and react.
Boundaries is knowing who you are and staying firmly planted in that as you go out into the world.
If someone does not want to be helped, than that is their right.
If someone does want to be helped, then offer what you can and let them do the rest.
There is a difference between giving from a place of connectedness and strength.
From that place, you have something to offer.
When you are connected to spirit and channeling, you are coming from a place of something to offer.
Spirit is always full, ready and eager to give.
But they know their limits and understand what those listening are ready to hear.
We will never give you something that you are not ready for.
That includes you as the channel and those listening in.
What is okay and not okay in your life?
Take the steps to address and communicate effectively.
You do not have to mean or aggressive.
Assertive and connected is all you need to be.
When dealing with others and they are not responsive, so be it.
Either leave or find a compromise.
Compromise will generally be necessary when dealing with others.
Boundaries are also important internally.
What you think and feel.
What is acceptable and what is not in those areas?
Is it okay to have negative, anxious thoughts or not?
Is it okay to feel bad consistently?
Is it okay to focus on things that you cannot control?
If you want to do this work for a long period of time, this lesson will be necessary.
If not, you will feel resentful and will not want to work in this area.
You are worthy of being good to yourself.
You are worthy of helping others.
You are worthy of helping others from a place of connectedness and love.
It is not your job to fix or change anything or anyone.
You may help and assist when needed.
Spirit may help and assist when needed.
But you will always have the space to decide for yourself what is true and right for you.
Mind your own business, let spirit do their job and take care of yourself.”
-End of channeled message-
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